Becoming A Person You Like

This is a weird topic for me I have created a brand focused on clothing and I do truly believe that the way we dress can help us be who we want to be. However, wearing clothes we like does not always make us a person that we would like. I have been focusing on being a person I would want to be friends with, I started this by making alike of things that I do and don't like in a person and then I looked at it to see if I even check all my own boxes. There are always things that we can work on and this does not mean that you are not a good person, but you can always be a better person.

I like to also use this in the way I dress, we all know that TikTok sound about seeing yourself walk by when you were a young kid and think you were cool. That is the energy we should be working towards, and it's not going to be every day. Some day I wake up like today and think man I don't feel like getting dressed. However, focus on becoming a person, clothes and personality, that a younger you would have wanted to become. And this way not be exactly true for all as we all change and develop over time but generally speaking becoming the kind of person you want to be. Think to yourself would I want to be friends with someone who does this or wears this.

This is a big part of learning to love yourself, and you may be saying well you are talking about changing yourself how is that seld love. Letting yourself standstill in life is not fair, you have to let yourself grow that is part of loving yourself. There were many years where I forced myself into a box I stayed the same and now I think about how much I wish I did the things that I wanted to do. These regrets are natural, but to learn from them you have to let yourself be who you want to be. Forget about looking silly or sticking out that is who you are and honestly other people will look at you and think man I wish I could be that confident with myself. This will not happen overnight, but I think it is important to your on you not to fit in and wear what everyone else does but to wear what you and to wear and be the person that you want to be.

Until next time,